How to kiss and make up!

Have you had an argument with your other half? It can be really hard to get things back on track, and nobody likes fighting. Here are my top six ways to kiss and make up after a fight, but remember to be polite, patient and understanding, or you are likely to start the fight again!

1. SHOW THEM YOU LOVE THEM.

How do you usually show that you love them? Try something different. Cook their favourite food, treat them to a back rub, run them a bath. Whatever you choose, displaying your love is sure to melt their heart

2. COOK!

Romantic dinners are perfect for making up after fights, even if you are a terrible cook. Get candles, romantic music, dim the lights, Cook their favourite food (or order their favorite take out!) Putting so much effort in is sure to banish your fight to the past.

3. LEARN FROM THE ARGUMENT!

Always having the same argument? Make sure you acknowledge what you did wrong, and try to improve yourself. If both partners do this, soon enough you’ll argue much less frequently, and be much more in tune with each other.

4. LEARN TO LAUGH AT YOURSELF!

The world is a much better place if you have a sense of humour! Remember that your partner won’t be trying to annoy you on purpose, and take some time out for yourself (like a bath, or a walk) if you feel yourself starting to get annoyed. Learning to avoid arguments is a brilliant skill!

5. MAKE SURE YOU ARE FRIENDS.

It can be easy to stop listening when you’ve been in a relationship a while. Take some time every week to just listen, and be a friend. Talk about hopes, ambitions, wants and worries, and make sure you are both aiming for the same target.    

6. FLOWERS!

 Add some romantic flowers to the mix, whether you’re a guy or a girl.

No matter who they are or whether they are a guy or girl, your sweety will love a gift of romantic flowers from you after a fight.  Just take care to send them to a location that won’t embarrass them, like at work, if you want your “kiss and make up” session to go smoothly.